Sunday Special: The biggest challenge.

People say that Christianity is demanding, some even go further, saying that it is too demanding for an ordinary human being.

I had a revelation during Mass the other day. You know, Christianity is demanding. But not because of a plethora of rules. Not because we need to go to church at least once a week and pray every day. Not because of the Ten Commandments even. Sure, not lying, keeping chaste, having God as the only Lord in your life is difficult. White lies seemed to be widely accepted, sex is all too appealing and there's so many things trying to get your attention.

But I think this is not what really makes Christianity challenging. With a bit of willpower and working on your bad habits, you can probably deal with most of the issues above. You know what the real challenge is?

‘Love your neighbour as yourself.’

Love your neighbour. All of them. Whoever they are. Love the lady who always sings out of tune. Love the gentleman who always thinks he's right. Love the girl next door who insist on blasting her music at night. And the boy who is always unpleasant to you. The friend you always questions your faith. Your grandma who cannot keep up with the times. Mum when she's overprotective. Tutor who doesn't care about you. Friends who promised to get in touch, but never did. An old man who told you off on High Street. Your ex boyfriend who dumped you when you were so in love with him. Greengrocer who yet again gave you too little change back. A driver that didn't give way to you.

I need to love all these people. Even when I, with little faith, will and mercy, would rather reject them. 

What loving your neighbour means? Pope Francis writes: "We should note the verbs which describe God’s intervention: he sees, hears, knows, comes down and delivers. God does not remain indifferent. He is attentive and he acts." And again, talking about Jesus: "He saw and embraced all of creation. But he did more than just see; he touched people’s lives, he spoke to them, helped them and showed kindness to those in need. Not only this, but he felt strong emotions and he wept (cf. Jn 11:33-44). And he worked to put an end to suffering, sorrow, misery and death." It's more than just live and let live. Loving your neighbour means something more active, active openness to all. It might be a smile, helping with carrying shopping, donating to a charity, taking time to visit someone sick, praying for those who I encounter today, doing a good job which benefits the community. Possibilities are endless, and so many occasions to show your love!